Judge, and be damned!
"Judge not,
that ye be not judged." (Mt. 7:1)
A noble injunction,
indeed. Unfortunately, totally impossible to adhere to. Almost as pointless as
"You shall not kill." (Ex.
20:13) The most blood-thirsty species ever to walk the face of the earth is
to be stopped by four little words? Like a T-Rex on crack, we will!
We impose such
injunctions on ourselves precisely because we are fully aware of our inability
to live up to them.
Mind you, difficult
to live up to something we can't even conceptualise. Not kill? And we're being
told this in a book steeped in bloodshed, by a God who sanctions and orders the
killing of innocents? There is room to quibble over whether we are actually
being told not to kill per se or not to
commit murder, but what's the difference really?
To kill another
human being is quite clearly justified under certain circumstances, so obvious
they need no discussion here.
To murder another
human being is just as clearly a selfish act - that person stands between me
and something I desire (a person, a thing, an outcome, whatever) and my only
means of acquiring what I desire is to get that person out of the way by
killing him or her. This act of killing is for personal gain and can never be
justified under law. Therefore, it is always a wrongful act.
The New Testament
tells us that murder is more than the simple act of taking the life of another.
To hold thoughts of hatred, jealousy or contempt towards another counts as
murder in the eyes of the Lord. (cf. Mt.
15:19) No murderer, whether in deed or thought, will attain eternal life.
(cf. 1
Jn. 3:15)
As much as one might
hate to admit it, then, that old bit of nonsense about us all being capable of
murder is probably truer than we'd like. For, who is capable of not judging
another?
It takes
just a quick glance, maybe three seconds, for someone to evaluate you when you
meet for the first time. In this short time, the other person forms an opinion
about you based on your appearance, your body language, your demeanor, your
mannerisms, and how you are dressed. (cf. Mind Tools)
Speaking from an
evolutionary viewpoint, it makes sense that we should be so ready to evaluate
and judge another. When it is a matter of survival of the fittest, quick
judgement counts.
The injunction not
to judge others, then, demands that we act against our very human nature.
There
is much in 'Humbug'
that is delightful, not the least Mr Nutt's sizing up of Agent Mulder. As a
small kernel in a hard shell, Nutt has, in all likelihood, had to suffer the
prejudice of others his entire life. It is natural that he be somewhat
sensitive about his height and how other perceive him. He is perfectly correct
when he says "it's human nature to
make instantaneous judgments of others based solely upon their physical
appearances." He is truthful when
he admits he has done the exact same thing with Mulder.
He is
erroneous on two counts. First, because he takes offense at Mulder's perfectly
innocent question, responding to the person in precisely the way he would hate
others respond to himself. Second, because he assumes that because others are
bound to be wrong about him - they'd never suspect that "a person of my height could have possibly obtained a
degree in hotel management" -
then he is bound to be wrong in his assessment of Mulder.
His powers of
perception are, humourously, spot on.
There are many
situations in which our ability to appraise another may still prove vital to
our well-being, if not survival. In the main, like all evolutionary traits,
society and culture have tipped it off kilter. There are far more instances in
which we are needful of our ability to assess and judge, many of which were
beyond inconceivable at the time our ancestors were honing the skill. The
actual life-or-death situations that may have, long-ago, necessitated the
ability to judge another and a situation no longer exist. But evolutionary
traits, like plutonium-239, have an exceedingly long active life span.
So, judge, because
you can't help it, but judge not harshly or maliciously. And remember, your bad
feelings towards another harm you far more than they harm the other person -
unless, of course, you're an American with a gun permit!
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